My problem lies in the "post college" phase. I graduate in '08 and then what. Do I move to Montréal to be with him or continue in the states working on my music (not that I can't do that in Quebec). I'll still be young, I'll be but 20 years old. Not only that but he doesn't want me to move unless there's a certain opportunity there for my benifit. Ie moving just for him is something he'll counteract as much as possible. And he would move back to NY but he's a kung fu instructor co-opening a new school in Montréal and he does stunts in fighting movies and shit, needs to be there now and probably for the next five years and I will under no drastic circumstance will i pull him out of that.