do you know what part you'll be staying in? the west end is pretty trendy.. if you find yourself in the 21st avenue Starbucks, you'll likely be in the company of famous people. but if you'd rather to to a local joint for coffee, try Bongo Java. www.bongojava.com/

Green Hills mall is my favorite even though I can't afford anyting in it..

Opry Mills mall is more affordable and is right next to the Opryland Hotel which sure is a sight to see.

If you're gonna be in the South end, Cool Springs has some nice restaurants (did I spell that right?). I particularly like the PF Chang's down there.. it's less crowded than the other one.

For live music, check pollstar.com. The Exit/In and 3rd and Lindsley are always having great shows.

Have fun =)