You're right, and asking for someone to tab it woulda just been fine too.

I don't know what would give you the idea that telling somebody to do something is acceptable, and not only acceptable, you expect courtesy in return. You actually expect somebody to tab it for you and if not, at least to be nice in their reply.

Asking for help is never bad, but you need to learn some manners and you'll find that people are often willing to provide any help they can. Why don't you look at some of the other topics where people ask for help. Look at the long, detailed answers. People took a lot of time to answer.

Why don't you step away from your computer for a week and rethink things.