"a no woulda just been fine"

Clearly not, as someone DID say no.

Bobbo is right. Don't come on here demanding that people use up their valuable time and effort for you... especially considering the fact that we don't know anything about you other than the fact that you're an ass.

A little courtesy and civility goes a long way and will make the difference between people viewing you as a cool guy that they are willing to help out or as a condescending ass-hat... which, unfortunately, is how you have established yourself.

"Why don't you step away from your computer for a week and rethink things."
Replace "your computer" with "society in general".