Here, I go, being the black sheep again.  I don't like "The Hurt" AT ALL.  Probably, because I can relate to the girl he feels he can do better than...the girl, he says, doesn't deserve his love.  Well, she certainly ISN'T getting it.  She's getting used for sex, period, whether he is conscious of it or not.  Perhaps I've been there, though I don't recall.  I believe I have been "used" and I just don't think it is right to use people for your own  needs.  "fuck buddies" is one thing, but this song isn't about that...at least I don't think so.  At this stage of my life, i can't wrap my head around being "fuck buds" with anyone, either.  Ah, the dilemmas.