Cremallero wrote:
Carolina wrote:
You sound like a nice guy but  I can't believe this thread. He said:

"just to feel something, something that hurts me
the hurt makes me feel alive"

He should just be cutting himself. Same difference but not fucking over women in the process. 
You see though, he is already dead, at least he feels that way. He has exhausted himself and been wrung out so dry he is nothing, "dead".

The process of fucking over the woman both figuratively and literally, is the last thing he would ever want to do, however since everything else has failed, every option of chivalry, compromise and/or composure, has only left him feeling this way. It is this forbidden action that has never before been acted upon that may in fact provide him with some sort of sensation, even if it is shameful or gluttonous.

It really is a terrible resolution, pitiful closure, but a form of resolution and form of closure nonetheless, which sometimes may be thought to require a physical action to attain it. It is unfortunate but the truth, although John very well could have never made the phone call to have her, "Here by the end of the hour..." but what may have simply felt what is there to lose when you have already lost it all.


Lol this song is so real and raw, will always remain a painful favorite. smiley: smile
In a way, I think it is not uncommon that ppl have done this...however, there are many ways to deal with this  kind  of extreme depression and sadness>>>other ways, that would, perhaps, better serve him, and the woman he may never end up calling.  It is a very difficult situation to be in.  I'm sorry he has given and given and come up with nothing .  He sounds a bit sorry for himself. 
P.S.= I don't think what he is considering is "shameful and gluttonous".  Those are pretty powerful words.  I just don't think it is the most conscious of his options.  Have I done this, myself?  Yes, once or twice.  I also had a room mate who just let me sleep with him for quite a few nights when I was in the middle of a break-up (no sex, just holding and he was straight as an arrow) and I also had a one-night stand with someone because I had caught my boyfriend cheating; but, it was above board.  It got me through the night.  No strings.  


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